I am so sorry to hear about your D. I am working on DB'ing mine for 6 months...4 of them on this forum.
I think Mozza added an entire thread devoted to success stories.
Please don't give up hope -- you have come to the right place.
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15