Like others, my W had a very tough childhood, nothing in-particular share but certain Dr visits I have had on multiple times Dr's pull me aside and ask if there was a rape ... I do not think there was, but after being here I can tell you W and all 4 siblings have shown varying degrees of MLC behavior, including her mother who seems to have been stuck there (Along with SIL and BIL3)
Time line: 2009 W loses Job 2010-11 We foreclose on house 2011 MIL leaves FIL for 1 year (I think this planted BD seed) 2012 Jun My father dies 2013 Mar BIL incarcerated 2013 Sep BD