Thank you JAS84. You're right. I do need to stop worrying about her and just focus on myself and my son. It's just harder than I thought it would be but I think I'm getting better at it.
Me:37, W:33, S:7 T:10 total (split while she was in college) M:3 S:2/4/15 EA confirmed: 3/7/15 D mentioned numerous times since 2/4/15, nothing filed...yet