Backfire alert, so after me being stuck in a stupied lala land I made the mistake of asking her how we could put all the bad and negative stuff from our marriage in a vault and continue with a happier and healthier marriage.

Her reply was that she wanted us to take space and be able to communicate and be happier with each other before we even talk about our future and she had put us in a vault and if it ever gets opened back up fine but if not and we seem happy and communicate better apart that would be ok with her to.
I cannot deal with the apartness anymore she has takin off her ring and when I told her that I understand that we're taking space I feel that it's disrespecting our marriage by her doing that, she replied with the rings are just material things.

And I know for a fact that there is no OM involved how am I supposed to take this?
And what am I supposed to do from here?

Last edited by Cadet; 04/28/15 02:04 PM. Reason: Carriage returns for readability