I agree, the issues are deep rooted and so.....they take a long time to be wrestled with, if they are ever wrestled with. Sometimes the easier answer is to keep running. There are a lot of bright lights and shiny new things to keep the delusion going.
The good thing is if we do the work on the back end our life is better and therefore we make better father's, mother's, friends etc. The silver lining does exist.
Life, looking at your life as it stands now would you want it any other way?
