Was your current W pregnant with S4 when you M her?

How many children do you have with XW, and do they ever stay with you?

Have there been any other times that you or either of your W's were involved with another person?

I understand it is a sensitive subject, but when these facts are left out, then the advice may not be as effective.

I am glad you and XW have made peace. Did that come about before or after the current problems with this W?

I understand guilt. It can be a terrible thing if it is not dealt with in a healthy way.

Don't give up on yourself.......or us. Keep posting.

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!