What are you looking for by posting updates? Good question. Are you journaling so that you can look back to see how far you have come, or are you looking for support or for someone to just listen? There are times when I don't know what to say to posters because of how they've posted. I have to go on the assumption that they need someone to just listen.
As for everybody wanted you to be done already. I can relate to that. People don't understand that MLC separations/divorces are not like the normal separations/divorces. People who are happy one minute and out the door the next are not normal. There is no lead up time whereby both parties are very unhappy w/life. MLC is like a long illness and then death occurs. Unless people have experienced a crisis situation such as MLC, they will not get it. Ignore them and live your life.
