Nothing too new to report. I am doing great, I am happy, I am accepting, I am moving forward with life. She has continued to let me down time and time again (I had to put our dog down a week or so ago, she blew me off on going so I went by myself). We still talk, but she has realized that I am done and I think it's pissing her off.

I actually went out on a date last Saturday. A gal I was introduced to a few months ago asked if I wanted to go see a local band at a club. While we were there, I saw a few of my WW's friends and within minutes I started getting texts from her. I ignored them all, which only made her more upset. I just don't care anymore about her or what she thinks/says/does.

It took me a long time to get to this point. Several months of depression, loneliness and the occasional suicidal thought. BUT like a phoenix, I rose from the ashes and couldn't be happier.

For those who are new, the best advice I can give is to GAL. Had I never started that process, I would be up the creek without a paddle. GET OUT AND DO IT!


Me: 38
W: 32
S10 D6
T: 10 (02/2004)
M: 7 (12/2007)
Separation 02/2015
OM confirmed 01/2015,
D mentioned 12/2014
D finalized 9/2016