Update. She cam in to my room before work and apologized for getting so pissed last night. She didn't go into detail why, but said that its one of those things where we're going to have to work together. Thanked her for her apology and told her I agree that we should communicate better.

She then said that she was thinking of going over to her best friends place after work but wasn't sure because she wasn't feeling well.

Told her I was sorry to hear she's not feeling well and not a problem if she wants to go to her friends.

She said thank u.

Not sure what to think. Don't want to feel this is monumental progress, but her coming in an initiating the conversation and apologizing and then communicating how I discussed last night is a big difference from how I felt it would go right after I asked.

Looks like Winhamm was on point. Her complaint had no content. It wasn't about watching the kids or me going out. It was about her having an opportunity to do the same and being asked/discussing with her vs. just telling her. That seems to be diffused . . .


M-33
W-33
S-11, S-8
M-11, T-14
BD - 12/26, Divorce Filing and admits to affair (her) 4/18
I moved out 5/23