Had ok weekend. Went out with guys Saturday. Sunday did stuff with kids and yard work. Evening kids were playing so had dinner alone with wife. I made mistake of asking her if she is or did have any kind of affair. She claims no, but a lot of signs point towards it. We talked about my reasons, she gave reasons for everyone of them, then gave same back to me. On how I'm doing same stuff, like going to gym, new clothes, going out on weekends so who knows. Giving her space, keeping myself busy, not bringing relationship(Except affair). Going for a massage today which drives her nuts because I never got one until she broke my heart.
Last week she closed an old checking account we had, she's got the check from it, about a grand. I have a problem, she says she going to keep check, guessing to put in her own account. I told her yesterday she can deposit in to joint account, since its our money. W didn't say anything. Things are fragile around house. How do I bring this up again without start war or get walked all over? Money wont make or break me, don't think W should get to keep for mad money. Do I drop it or just open my own account and do same thing? Not sure if W is testing me or what.
