Just wanted to say hi, and let you know there are others here without children. And yes the NC is scary, but out of my control.
there are lots of similarities between your H and my ex. And I also had issues with not feeling like a priority and then losing the plot. I too am an introvert and like my alone time. But when I want company with my man I want it in my way on my terms. I realise now I did a fair bit of 3 year old tantrum throwing to get my way! Lol look folks no hands JB, is learning! Lol ( sorry just had to take proverbial out of myself)
Hang in there NG! The emotions come like waves, you just need to let wash over you, try now to thrash about, and note if you see rip try to avoid it, just saying. Lol
I just wanted to say too, from how you talk about yourself and your life and your interests, you sound dynamic, focussed and a major catch! Have you forgotten how fabulous you are ? Just curious....