Thanks Diesel. Yeah hard to believe it's been a year since the bomb was dropped on me. It hasn't been easy but all I can tell people who are just going through this is trust me...the pain and hopelessness DOES go away...even though that seems impossible for you at the moment. Like everything else in life...you just somehow get used to it and one day you realize you are proud of yourself for not begging WAW. Let her go and let her have what she wants... you just act like you agree and act happy yourself... even if you're dying inside...act happy and not too bothered by it all. What happens is you fake it til you make it...and that's just how it happened with me. You become the one in power...not WAW, because they hate the thought of you NOT being all heartbroken and upset over them. I won't lie, even after a year you will probably still think about R; the difference is you want it to come to you or nothing at all...you let WAW own that and you just go on with your own life. If she wants you...she can come get you and that's it. She walked away on her own just fine...well she can walk back too if she wants to. If she doesn't... oh well her loss.
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ME: 43 W:44 M 13 years on 5-5-01 T 18 years BD 4/27/14 D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date) WAW moved out 5/12/14 Papers filed 6/27/14 Divorce granted 07/17/14 Our marriage ends 11/17/14
