MCS

thanks.

Where i am at present is that i see my W actions and reasoning.

Her actions are a result of her low self esteem, plus my fixing (i thought support)

Her reasoning is that as said in other posts.....she is rewriting our marriage to help her justify her A.

My W has contact with all her x partners, didnt bother me. But i now think that it may be all part of this self esteem boosting......DO THEY STILL WANT ME. ....... Kind of thing.