I know i have and had a role in where we are today, but The complexity of my wife, hi intelligence, low self esteem hidden behind a very confident shell and past issues, i now know are playing a massive part in this.
She has always needed approval, especially when it comes to looks, deep down i am more and more sure that this her way of refilling her own self esteem as in "look i can still attract"
Only my views, but by no means do i shy away from my part.
