Yeah. It does make sense. Really trying to go underneath the surface of what she's saying to understand how that would make her feel. I get tunnel vision on trying to justify time away or watching the kids, she really her complaint of never even being asked if it would be an issue or having the opportunity to do something else goes unaddressed.
While she's having an affair and I have a boundary that I can't be her friend, I still need to respect she's the mother of our children and be open communicating about each other's schedule, so we both are able to do things.
I'm learning that me gal doesn't mean that she is stuck with it and now her opinions or things she would want to do are irrelevant and a lower priority than my needs.
Just that I need to gal for me and not take it so personally as she continues to pursue the life she's wanting right now, apart from me.
M-33 W-33 S-11, S-8 M-11, T-14 BD - 12/26, Divorce Filing and admits to affair (her) 4/18 I moved out 5/23
