This validating thing is new and I thought I was supposed to gal and not worry if she has to "babysit the kids". Plus as pissed as she got in two seconds, I almost feel that validating would have been felt by her as me mocking her or manipulating her, all things she's accused me of the last couple months.

I even went back to see if there's something we could work out to where we could both go (something i regret now because it seems weak) but she wanted no part of that. Feels like she seems convinced to make my life worse now and would rather do that.


M-33
W-33
S-11, S-8
M-11, T-14
BD - 12/26, Divorce Filing and admits to affair (her) 4/18
I moved out 5/23