Ripken - LRT with Wayward Wife and Divorce Filing

[Ripken8]

Ugh. Update. Things seemed to being going ok. I was polite and courteous and spent time with the boys playing basketball. She went to the store to get things because I didn't by them for her Sunday. We discussed nothing about me being served or u friending her on fb and I have no plans to bring either up.

Then in passing I mentioned "just so u know, I have plans Wednesday so won't be back after work". Didn't feel I needed to ask permission or elaborate it was a couple days notice.

She got pissed and said "ok. That's fine! I got invited to go do something and I guess I won't be going and stay home with the kids!" When I said i wasn't trying to start a fight and with a couple days notice I thought it would be ok. She retorted "yeah. That's fine. I'm just going to start doing the same thing now too."

I went back to see what time her thing was to see if we could work something out, but she didn't care. She told me to drop it and that she just wouldn't go. Said that she is mad that I "make her feel guilty" and then I'm "gone almost every other day.

Which isn't true. I was gone Wednesday and Friday after the boys went to bed. She went out Saturday. Not sure the problem but she is pissed and seems to want to take it out in me.

I wouldn't be surprised if she leaves shortly to go to her affair partners just out of spite.

I'm trying to stay cool and didn't yell, but hard not to take this personal. Everything I think it's getting better or I can handle it, it gets worse.

What do I do? What a tough day!