What this means is that your affair, now turned marriage, has most likely come to it's predictable end.
Georgia,
I value your opinion and you have your right to yours. You and I agree on a lot of things especially religiously. I struggle every day, every moment trying to apply what I read and have learned in the Bible to my sitch. For every passage I read that helps, I find one that doesn't. I feel right now as the book says that WW is out in the desert, naked and alone and is awaiting God to take her back in and rejoin her with me....but I also read that I have the case that I've married someone who is having trouble with being a Christian (although she's still going to church) and as such, I have the right to annul our M. So where do I stand? I stand for not placing my personal values on WW decisions and what her faith is telling her (even though I feel I have the right as her H,) I just need to look at MCS and use the bible to guide my actions.
Sorry for this and I don't want to make this too controversial, but this whole post rubbed me the wrong way. The bible also shows us to not be judgmental of others, because we all have and will continue to sin. I know what scripture says, but its also not on us to apply scripture to their situations. We can use it as guidance and I hope that was your intentions, but I didn't read it that way. I look at the concubine washing Jesus' feet and see that His heart opened for her. Not for her past transgressions, but because he sees us all as his children.
There are numerous examples in the bible that God showed His grace on people that have been through these situations. I know, there's also passages about adultery and what that leads to.
Let's keep this a place of healing.
M:36 W:37 T: 15 M:11 S6 D5 BD: 8/10/14 IDLY: 8/12/14 S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids) D Mentioned: 10/15/14 Confronted about OM: 10/15/14 EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13 She filed: 8/15 (not final)
