Thank you Wonka for visiting my thread. I can't answer for Zues, but I think that at least for me when I let my emotions take over and react to WAS' behavior I am sabotaging my own growth. Unfortunately I am still not as detached as I need to be and his behavior still affects me. That is something I am working really hard on. I have to continue to remind myself that he is on his path and I am on mine. I hope our paths will cross again but I'm not so sure.

Me:36 H: 29
T: 4 years
M: 2 years
No kids
In-house sep 10/4/14
H moved out 1/2/15
Talk of D 4/9/15

"She's standing on a line between giving up and seeing how much more she can take" John Mayer