1. She is sending you a text that she can later show to her OM as a indication that she needs his protection and continued contact. Because you've exposed...OM is ignoring her at work. In order to get OM to be and/or remain her "knight in shining armor" she has to make him think you are a controlling, angry, violent bast age that she needs help and protection from (he's a doctor...they get off on helping people and solving their problems...they BE Gods, remember). It also relieves OM of responsibility if he's lead to believe you are a jerk who deserves to get cheated on.
No matter what you respond with.or even if you don't respond...she can alter it or add it and make it (your entire conversation) up and make it appear aggressive.
This could also be forwarded to OM for OM to give to his wife...who they want to keep from talking to you ever again. The story line there would be....don't talk to him. He's threatening me (OM) and his wife is scared for herself. They want OM's wife to believe you are a threat.
This made up conversation could be for her manager too. Trying to save her job by garnering fake sympathy.
2. If you cheated on her and she busted you....she KNOWS she would have flipped out. Betrayed wives are much more naturally aggressive at fighting for their spouse and getting ANGRY. She'd have called your OW's husband before she even talked to you. Therefore, she is VERY suspicious of your 180/GAL stuff where you are nice, kind and indifferent. You aren't chasing her anymore or even talking to her much. She thinks you have something up your sleeve and she can't figure it out. It's freaking her out. If this is it....it's perfect. She's focusing on you versus OM.
When guessing the behavior of drug addicts you always have to error towards the drugs. The drug is their primary relationship and everything done or said is somehow about the drug. Waywards tend to be similar which leads me to guess this more likely has something to do with the OM and her relationship with him.
The internet is 90% complaining and entitlement and I hate it because I deserve better!
