newbie needs help part 5

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It's been 3 weeks since I last posted. Updating my situation. I have been living in my apartment for 6 weeks now. I have been living life as if I we are moving forward with D. We have a schedule in place for kids time.
I have been paying temporary support until a settlement is in place. I have been focusing on myself, kids and work. I have avoided stbxw unless she instigates contact.
We have been working on a settlement without courts. I initially was taking a strong position but recently became more accommodating and anxious to get this over with.
My stbxw has recently been calling and concerned about how I am doing. My response has been I turned it over to the Lord and am at peace with
She has told me she is feeling guilty. She has always tried to play tough so this is something new. I did mention that I could only control myself, I should have bit my tongue but said I thought she was making a mistake and that she would regret what she has done someday.
I don'tknow why but I feel like she is looking for sympathy and she needs to see this is her bed and she needs to sleep in it.
The nxt few weeks I will be on a few trips and be away for 7 out of next 14 days
She will be with kids for 2 straight weekends. I do think it will be hard for the kids as I take them to school daily and won't see them while away. I still lovemy wife but the damage that has been done is something that only she can repair. I am not sure why but today I feel more in control of my life than she does of hers.