So after I thought it was starting to get better I got the "your smothering me." I'm officially to the point that I'm going to act careless to what she does and just straight up ignore her unless it's about the kids, I cannot financially afford to move further away due to already dumping money into this place with rent deposit and utities. I'm going to just focus on my kids and my happiness. I'm to the realization that if she wants to come around than she'll have to be the one to make contact with me FIRST, if not fine I've got to continue on living my own life.