We do all need those 'I agree with Toots' t-shirts. Walking round town people will have no clue what its referring to though
I'm OK with the stuff on my dad. I get a much better sense of who he is and how I want to relate to him. Its not great to have my parenting criticised but at the same time im happy with my relationship with my kids.
Generally this has all been part of my learning process, and as has been said a few times to me - we need these challenges to improve ourselves.
On a GAL front, I had dinner with a friend tonight who happens to be very smart, very beautiful and very funny. She's also happily married so there was nothing more to it but it was nice to just be able to enjoy that kind of evening and be reminded that I have something to offer.
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress