What I really take away from all this is that until the MLCer can resolve their anger there is no chance of moving forward. I suspect most MLCers have had long issues with forgiving even before they entered this relationship with us. My ex held a grudge against her father the whole time we were together. I suspect I have now inherited this grudge. I don't believe they will ever get well unless they can work through this issue with themselves.
Twisting on Life's Rope Me53 W53 M20 D21 D19 D16 BD 2-2013 D final 1-2015 _________________________ "Dream about tomorrow, Live for today, Learn from yesterday"