Originally Posted By: Old Dog
gan - re checking for posts: It may be something to do with the co-dependent thing. Am I looking for validation from others because I'm not completely comfortable within myself?

Maybe. Or may just be you are just looking for any kind of connection with others during a rough time in your life. I think it is pretty natural to want that

Community (definition): a group of people living in the same place or having a particular characteristic in common.

Here's a tip - if you look and no one has posted on your thread, post on someone else's. The more you check in with others, the more others will check in with you.

Let us know how the CoDa meetings go. I'm curious...


H 37 Me 36
Together 15 years
Married 5 years
No kids
BD Apr 2014
H moved out 2 Jun 2014