Hi Toots, I'm glad you liked my suggestion though if it goes badly in going to quickly deny all knowledge :p

Either way I'll be fascinated to know his response and irrespective I think it will help you keep moving forward.

Change tack slightly, why did you say ur shows he us still in wayward mindset? Weird and philosophical doesn't immediately make me think wayward so just curious what it was that made you think that.

I hope your cat settled in nice and quickly and you enjoy the added company.

Both mid 30s, 2 young kids
BD 7sep14
XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1
D paperwork in progress