Minman, I would have to agree with all of this as-well. You do come across this way in how you have been interacting with MrBond.
How you think the situation comes across isn't as important as how the other receives it at times. Right or wrong, they are entitled to their opinions and feelings and if your W has said the above quoted, you have some work to do.
Regardless of the specifics of how MrBond is saying something to you, you seem to be missing the elephant in the room. You keep coming back round after round to prove him wrong or discredit his methods. Does it really matter if his criticism fits the definition or if he has stated something incorrectly? He is using this conversation to show you how you react in these situations so that you can see it first hand. Yes, you have admitted to some of the flaws in your posts, but you still continue to fight it.
I would disagree with what you said before about your main issue. You stated before you feel your main issue is that your always right and others are wrong. I think the more important point to make, that you keep overlooking, is your urge to correct them in general conversation. Your defense mechanism for this kicks in so strong that you latch onto the portion of the conversation you see as incorrect and ignore the larger point of your own reaction to it.
I realize from reading this I have done similar things with my W before, thought not to this extent. I don't have to agree with her opinions on something, or even why she has them. However, I do need to respect the fact that she is thinking or feeling a certain way, because she has a right to them.
Last edited by Fogg; 04/27/1508:45 PM.
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