HeavyD - The D should be finalized this week. Almost 4 months since she filed. I haven't been stalling. My L is concerned about hitting the 10 year anv. and W requesting alimony. The legal stuff has been the easy stuff.

I can pay the mortgage myself. Once I start paying child support it will be more difficult. W is moving about 45 min away. I plan to move to be closer to the kids. It will also put me closer to work.

Badger1 - I know how you feel. It's hard to realize when they temp checking and nothing more. My W is quick to throw crumbs and just as quick to pick them up. That's difficult to deal with. Some of the crumbs really felt awesome. Crumbs don't work, can't focus on them.

M:42 W:43
T:14 M:10
S:9 D:5
W filed 12/22/14
EA 12/31/14
PA 4/10/15
D final 5/13/15