I know there are no guarantees but.....

[XFit14]

Hello all! I am not going to start with writing my whole story....yet.
I have been reading the books (DB and DR).
I started with DR and got halfway through and thought that perhaps DB would be better to start with but as I have gotten halfway through that book I still have not reached any parts yet to 'help' with my situation.
I don't want to skip ahead because I understand the book(s) is/are a progression and the background is important...but I am so looking for some meat and potatoes that I can work with and on.

I have two concerns before I spend a good deal of time writing down my story.....1) Are there any CURRENT success stories (because I am majorly in need of hearing from someone that has been successful) and, knowing that there are no guarantees, does this really work???

I have read and read and read hundreds of pages of posts on here and I think Cadet and Sandi have amazing advice.....but does it work because I have been employing the techniques I have read in the threads here and I haven't been getting anywhere.
My divorce was actually final......today and I am so in need of some help.

I have also searched and searched on here and don't seem to be able to find someone in a similar situation as mine.

So, before I type this whole thing down....is there someone that has a current success story that can bolster my spirits and give me SOME sort of renewed hope that this might actually work and somehow, someway, someday I can get my wife and son back??