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[Elly4]

AH, although I love my H like crazy, there are definitely days since this has started that I really don't like him very much. I think some blinders come off when this happens and we can see our H's a little differently before. In all honestly, my H and I never really argued for the 23 years. I really did think we had the perfect marriage. Surprise!

Two things for you to think about.
One: You asked me before my vacation about what you can do to GAL. What did you used to do before the kids? What were your interests or likes? I would say go back to those roots. Or think if there is anything you wish you learned, and take some classes. Better yet, would your sons like to take a class with you? Maybe Judo or something? Helps with ADHD.

Two: My H texts all the time in front of me, smiling at it like it's his new best friend. It drives me crazy!! To DB I either totally ignore it and continue to watch the program I was watching, etc. Or I leave the room to go play with my S or do something somewhere else. I've actually gone and taken a walk when he does it.

I'm glad you're still on here and I think you're making the right steps. You just need to find a way to GAL more. I've started scrapbooking again too.