I currently look at FB as a tool for my own use, as many of my friends and mutual friends use it. Being the social recluse that I have been, I am using it as a tool to reach out to create meaningful REAL social interactions, such as organizing things to do with S4 and other kids, set up GAL activities with friends, etc.

Since I have very little contact with W (dim/dark, LRT), I see this as an avenue to show my changes, whether she accepts them or not. It is very possible that she has limited me from her end, but it isn't about her. It's about being social.

If she sees something, okay. If she doesn't, that's okay, too.

I will add that I did unfriend W once, during a moment of anger, but refriended after a week or so, and she accepted. Haven't given much thought since.

Last edited by JAS84; 04/27/15 06:50 PM.

Me: 30, W: 29
S: 4
T: 14
M: 5
BD: March, 2015, ILYBNILWY, IDLY, Need Space
OM, EA/PA Discovered (drunken kissing, she says she stopped there? NOPE!): March 2015
S: April 25th, 2015