Wife had EA but does not admit to it...

[mvgfwd2]

I agree with Ontheup. The snoring is an excuse to be away from you to do whatever she does with that time. That's what happened to me. "I can't sleep with your snoring" blah, blah, blah. So being the good husband I would go to the couch so she could sleep. That turned into her not wanting me in bed at anytime for any reason. You can see how that goes. Just gives them some alone time to conduct the A late a night while nobody is awake to notice.

I would do what you can to remedy that situation. For me it was as simple as elevating my upper body and head a little to reduce the snoring quite a bit. But that was after I discovered the EA and I demanded that we be in the same bed. I was not going to let lack of intimacy/emotional connection continue. It worked for me, but I caught onto the EA pretty early.