1) I didn't mean to say you did horrible things. I'm not familiar with your sitch so I'm not sure what you did or didn't do in contributing to the end of your M. My main point is that regardless of what you did, it doesn't make you a horrible person.
2) Suggesting you get out into a social arena and meet some people is not necessarily implying that you start dating anyone. Only you will know when you are ready for that. What it does mean is to get involved in some activities and focus on improving your life and having fun. Afterall, life is too short to do otherwise! :-)
