Sorry for your pain. It takes time to get into the head space to date let alone do it! It was four years before I felt ready...and even then wasn't so sure smile Don't date just cuz she is...you date because you're ready and able to have someone in your life. It's ok to feel your feelings right now, this is a big confirmation for you of something you didn't want and whether it was going on then or developed now, the feelings for you are still pretty intense. Hang in there and talk here. Many of us have been where you are.


Divorced February 27, 2012.

"Only by love is love awakened".~ Ellen G White