Originally Posted By: Ripken8


It helps to have a better visual on how to communicate without being rude, short or ignoring her entirely when she initiates. I'll continue to keep you guys posted and appreciate the continued feedback, suggestions and support!


This is not easy. I speak from experience. You have to let go of the resentment and speak to her as you would a neighbor. I struggled with this in the beginning. It helps to keep concentrating on you and your kids. And find anything to keep busy. STFU really helps, especially when she tries to push your buttons. When you have those angry feelings, remember THIS TOO SHALL PASS! Hope that helps some.


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