Personally, I feel like I have a team of All-stars weighing in on my sitch and helping me out - Wonka, Cadet, Sandi and even strong newcomers like Pilot, Bob, Heavy D, etc. I read all of your posts and I hope to get to a point where I can start to help others and pay it forward.
I'm doing what I can now, but still hard not to let things overwhelm me.
M-33 W-33 S-11, S-8 M-11, T-14 BD - 12/26, Divorce Filing and admits to affair (her) 4/18 I moved out 5/23
