Thanks for dropping by Edz. Well, a successful mission to collect Puss. I've emptied the car, she has had a wander round, some food and a brush, and is now reclined looking very much at home. I wish I had asked my landlord if I could bring her months ago now.

Had a tiny snoop at the marital home. Not difficult as H had left his emails up on screen! Seems he is emailing a woman in the US now - a friend of his sister's. It was a bit of a weird email actually - Philosophical stuff in there and with comments about how interesting her facial expressions are. Sounded like they had had a meaningful convo whilst he gazed at her face. Doesn't sound like an R as such, and I'm not too upset about any of that. But I do realise that he is still in a wayward mindset, which is good to know. And I guess I don't feel like engineering a meeting knowing that. I am going to think about the financial side of things though, and Jim's suggestion in particular.

One funny thing though. Last time I went his desk was full of papers. This time, he had completely cleared it apart from a couple of items. One was a list of his friends we made together (shortly before BD when he said he had no friends and was feeling lonely). We put each of their names in a little cloud, and I suggested he might keep in touch more with people who love him - Mrs Fixit in full flow I know. He had kept that...

Off to the pet store now. Have a good evening all xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus