I just read through your thread. I am very impressed Diana! Congratulations on the motorcycle course. That sounds fantastic!
You have some really great people in your corner!
I believe if you read about Squiggy and about NH, you will see that they are closer to piecing things back together than you currently are. But in their stories you will see how wishy washy the Spouse can be. The more pressure you apply the more difficult your journey may be. Validate, and be patient.
Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2 M - 8/2008 W is not happy - 1/2014 W wants D - 9/2014 W moved out - 11/2014 D filed - 1/23/2015 D'ed - 2/25/2015 Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015