Wonka - THANK YOU! That helps. Yes, even though I bring up the boundary and speech on hear, I don't tell her that and wouldn't. My talks and discussing on Marriage/Divorce, etc are done.
I will go back to my list of things I need to improve upon and find ways to work past those, for me.
As far as with the WW, I even felt eating what she made or acknowledging/allowing her to do anything for me was what a friend would do, so ignored or turned down those offers. But again, that felt cold.
Again, wife is sleeping elsewhere, I'm in MR. We have separate accounts and she pays for her own things.
I'll keep that in mind with family activities. So even in times like watching TV with the boys and she comes in the room - should I leave? Or in that scenario, if she's already in the room with the boys, should I not stay and watch with them?
M-33 W-33 S-11, S-8 M-11, T-14 BD - 12/26, Divorce Filing and admits to affair (her) 4/18 I moved out 5/23
