I'm sure that this letter is tough to read now and you might be thinking it is too late to do anything about this, but this sounds like a clear road map to me - addressing these things will help you become a better person, a better father, a better man, and a better husband to someone. Keep this as a reminder to what your goals really are.
You can do this and it may or may not be noticed by W, but it will improve you.
Keep it up JAS!!
Me-45 W-44 S21, S18, D15 T-27, M-21 BD Jan 2014 PA revealed March 2014 In-house separation - April 2015 I filed - Aug 2015 She moved out Oct 2015