Deepend... Anything is possible. But first you need to follow the program and do no more damage in anyway. Of course she is a different person, she is no longer your W, she is someone different.

I suggest you start reading some of the successful threads (check out Mozza's success links). You need to change the way you look into these situations, and change your reactions.

Have you read the "Lighthouse Story" as part of Cadet's welcome response? How about Sandi's Rules?

Also, could you create a signature with your situation?

When you build a stone wall, whether it is 450 feet or 10 feet long, you build it stone by stone.

I'll be checking in.


Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2
M - 8/2008
W is not happy - 1/2014
W wants D - 9/2014
W moved out - 11/2014
D filed - 1/23/2015
D'ed - 2/25/2015
Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015