Spent a lot of time thinking and talking with my sister about this. My confusion with how she brought up marriage counseling but has shown no signs of making any changes or wanting to be with me.
My sister made the point that there is probably still a lot of shame and remorse in her. She also made the point that she could have just kept quiet about the marriage counseling if it is something she doesn't want to do.
Me:43, WW:45 2 Kids: 21,22 Married: 23 Years Bomb: 01/2015 Separate Bedrooms: 02/2015 She left: 03/2015