Wife had EA but does not admit to it...

[Ontheup]

so its taken her how many years to realise you a. snore and b. snore so bad she can't even sleep with you anymore? hmmm sorry im not buying it one bit
Listen to you instincts an gut. I knew for a long time something was off but knowing nothing about affairs (pre DB), not believing for one minute my wife would ever do that and certainly not with who she has I buried my feelings and carried wondering what the hell i needed to do to save my marriage in my own little naive world.
My eyes are now well and truly opened. I no longer live in that uncertain fog.

You have to ask yourself why would your wife, someone who is suppose to love you not want to be completly honest and open with you? Not want to be intimate with you? not want to sleep with you? Just saying she hasnt talked is not her proving she hasnt talked.

Actions. They speak a whole lot louder than words.