Whilst you're together in same house moving on is very difficult. I was doing all the wrong things until i moved out.
Not saying be enemies. Its just standard stuff from WAW. When they see us as their friend it justifies them doing what they've done. "oh look i'm having an affair but its all ok because we're all friends, my hubby will get over it and move on and we'll all be happy" They dont see and dont care that they have devastated you and /or family. They now have what they want and it was for right reasons, their happiness so its all ok. They expect you to just get over it and all be friends. Its just bullsh!t. I do not buy it one bit. Friends do not treat you like that. My friends dont anyway.
Me:40 W:35 D:8 T:13 M:10 WAW: 7/14 PA Discovered: 1/15 at least 6 months Moved out and moved on