Rereading the rules there are none that I have real reason to question. If I come across one specifically that feels inappropriate to my situation I'll ask about it in my post.
R 25 years M 14 years S11 & S13 Working on it alone since Oct 2014 M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years) Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr. Next R chat Aug'17 Still together