KGirl - letting the past go

[Mozza]

Thanks for the update KGirl. You know I always appreciate them.

My IC suggests that sometimes we're overly sad because we're confronted with our fears in this new life. I know it makes some sense in my stich. I note that the car incident is making you doubt your capacity to be independent in a way, and that the fear of being alone is on your mind at the same time.

I'm glad you're getting to a balanced view of what lead to the D. Know of course that his reasons will never be exactly yours, so you have to accept that it won't make complete sense, that you wouldn't have made the same decision under the same circumstances. But most importantly, we LBS might be tempted to demonize our WAS to make us feel better, at the risk of missing out on some lessons. Hopefully we can all see the Matrix behind it all.