Give it a week or two and go back and read some of the stuff on your last thread. I think you'll see the condescending very clearly if you read it as tho a stranger wrote it.
Here's a question for you to go deeper with. Condescending stuff is actually a defense formed as attack. Does the thought that you are flat out wrong (doesn't matter about what) itch at you and burn you? Do you feel the need to defend yourself if there's a chance you could be perceived that way?
Mid 30's Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH D 9/15; NC forever on
