You're not failing at all. She doesn't know what she wants and she's showing it. Just be TLEE. Remember, WE can't win them back, but improve ourselves regardless of how our sitch turns out.
This must be so tough, I'm not sure how I would handle it. Stay strong, be the new TLEE, not for her....but for you.
Hang in there I've been thinking about you. Remember, there's a plan in all of this, even though sometimes it's not how 'we' think it should be going at any one time. Take a step at a time and leave the rest up to your faith to get you to the destination.
M:36 W:37 T: 15 M:11 S6 D5 BD: 8/10/14 IDLY: 8/12/14 S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids) D Mentioned: 10/15/14 Confronted about OM: 10/15/14 EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13 She filed: 8/15 (not final)
