Went out all day yesterday and did heaps of stuff, only made it back to the weekly dinner with minutes to spare!
And gg it seems has offend the new friend. He isn't on the same page as most of us.
He keeps talk love completes, makes me cringe. Nope so far he won't look at the links to Nvc. Moving house so cannot watch them yet. He's still very raw. which is tough. Only 5mo since his wife passed.
He's talking and thinking in some very co dependant ways or at least expresses his ideas in those terms.
Funnily enough I'm not a wanting to rush like before, mentally I'm holding back. Although there's lots if chat and talk,hours in fact it's not wanting to rush.
Brd I just wanted to push stuff and was regretting in a way, that nothing as really reflected back. Another who was raw. Sigh... They tend t think in terms of r = success.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26
which is tough. Only 5mo since his wife passed. 