Thanks Bob. That really is a reassuring verse. Both because of the words themselves, and the wide interpretation that the Bible sometimes allows for us.

I want to see it as the plan being that my wife and I will be reunited, but it could just as easily mean that this door will close, and another will open.

Quick journal:

When W moved out, we agreed that the parent with S4 would be available for the other to call between 8pm and 8:30pm for good-nights and "how was your day" stuff with him. She called right at 8pm last night, but nothing tonight. S4 didn't ask about it, so I let it be. I also wanted to reach out to her, but chose not to, as the expectation was clear, and she understood it.

Personally, I have set an alarm to make sure I am available to make or take that call, for the sake of S4.


Me: 30, W: 29
S: 4
T: 14
M: 5
BD: March, 2015, ILYBNILWY, IDLY, Need Space
OM, EA/PA Discovered (drunken kissing, she says she stopped there? NOPE!): March 2015
S: April 25th, 2015